Fear of Public Speaking Resources
Maximise Your Progress: Beyond Our Public Speaking Sessions
While our sessions provide a supportive environment to tackle fear of public speaking, lasting progress often comes from taking additional steps.
Remember, consistency is key!
This page offers simple strategies you can incorporate into your daily routine to reinforce the skills you develop at our sessions. Don't worry, these steps don't have to be overwhelming. Focus on achievable challenges that fit your lifestyle. Remember, even small daily actions can lead to significant improvement over time.
Where should I start?
Here are some ideas to get you started (feel free to personalise them):
** Practice relaxation techniques: Techniques like meditation or deep breathing exercises can help manage anxiety in everyday situations.
** Visualise success: Imagine yourself delivering a confident and engaging presentation. Immerse yourself in the positive emotions associated with a successful speaking experience.
** Positive self-talk: Challenge negative thoughts about your speaking abilities. Replace them with affirmations that boost your confidence.
** Seek out opportunities: Look for opportunities to practice speaking in low pressure environments, like joining a local club or volunteering for a presentation opportunity.
** Action plan: this is useful for helping increase commitment and motivation to any actions you choose each week; please try to complete this at the same time each week.
Remember, you're not alone on this journey!
We encourage you to share your progress and challenges with our supportive community at the sessions and during the Confident Collective meetups. Together, let's conquer your fear of public speaking and empower your voice!
The Harmony4Life Approach to Overcoming Your Fear of Public Speaking
My Fear of Public Speaking Programme is built on the powerful CMR framework, which stands for:
C: Calming Techniques
M: Mindset Tools
R: Response Prevention
Deepen Your Progress: Weekly Focus Areas
This page offers valuable resources which go into more detail than the above should you want some additional information related to conquering public speaking anxiety. To make learning manageable, we'll dedicate each fortnightly session to exploring one specific area in-depth. We can further build upon and use the resources here as part of the Confidence Collective Club.
Remember, small steps lead to big changes!
Don't hesitate to break down these resources into bite-sized chunks that fit your schedule. Ensure you focus on achievable goals to help you make consistent progress.
Feedback is always welcome!
Please get in touch if you have any questions or suggestions to improve this resource page, the Fear of Public Speaking Programme or the Confidence Collective Club.
Complete this before you do your first Mindful Mermaids session.
This may be useful if you are new to swimming outdoors during the colder months.
We may include a period of ‘Mindful Walking’ on days where the weather’s not so good for sitting still for the mini mindfulness session. You may also find it useful in everyday life.
It’s good to buddy up whilst outdoor swimming in the colder months but also a good idea to carve out some time to swim mindfully. If you can create this quiet time to really absorb the moment this guide may help you get the most out of this.
By completing this action plan your motivation to take action will increase. This is crucial to help you commit to this plan even on days when you don’t feel like it.
Here is a very basic introduction to the NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) technique called anchoring which we may use in our sessions. I hope you find this useful in every day life.
This Mindful Mermaids resource has lots of ideas of how we can take up learning and make this a lifelong habit.
Research has shown that beginning to spend a small amount of time each day focusing on positive thoughts (in this case your achievements) will help improve your mood. List 3-6 achievements each day and see how it works for you.
Practicing Gratitude Therapy where you focus on ‘Three Good Things’ or ‘What Went Well’ can positively impact your levels of happiness and give you a more optimistic outlook. Research suggests writing down three things every day for seven days or weekly on a Sunday for 6 weeks makes a positive difference. As part of Gratitude Therapy it is important to spend time focusing on the the positive feelings associated with each item that you write down. Try it and see for yourself.
Find out how small amounts of exercise can make a difference and explore the types of exercise that best suit you.
Mindfulness is about being aware of what is happening in the present moment both internally (in your mind and body) and externally (around you). It is about observing what is happening with curiosity, attention and acceptance, without judgement.
Remember that as little as 5 minutes of mindfulness at the start of your day can have a huge positive impact. It can boost your ability to focus, increase productivity, reduce stress and enable you to be fully present throughout the rest of your day. If you find it difficult to start your day mindfully try to make time later in the day.
There are two resources below. If you are short on time try dipping into the second resource (‘Mindfulness Tools’) and selecting one approach to mindfulness to try over the next wek.
Here’s a 10 minute guided mindfulness recording based on one of the Mindful Mermaids sessions. Hopefully this will help you practice what we have covered in our Mindful Mermaids meetups. This recording incorporates the sounds of the sea to recreate our Mindful Mermaids session as closely as possible.
Practicing controlled breathing regularly is great for wellbeing. Try to practice using this technique at least once a day and make a note of how your breathing changes from the start to the end of the exercise.
Social connection is one of the ‘7 Steps to Wellbeing’ in Mindful Mermaids because scientific evidence shows it’s a core human need; one that’s essential for us to feel satisfied. Our relationships are really important for keeping us happy and healthy.
Click on the link below to find out more and get ideas for increasing social connection.
How I can help you...
I can work with you to achieve your goals, whatever they may be… CBT, Hypnotherapy and the other psychological therapies I offer can be tailored to address many issues, so if you would like to work on something that’s not included below get in touch.
- Self esteem and confidence
- Social anxiety
- Interview success
- Public speaking
- Driving and motorbike tests
- Sports and music performances etc
- Depression, postnatal depression and low mood
- Fears and phobias
- Work and business success
- Stress and relaxation
- Peak performance
- Relationships
- Other positive life changes